"I don't think we are sinning." That is the statement made by a member if the congregation here who is living with a woman he is not married to. This is the same individual who said that he really appreciated the fact that I "stick to the Bible."
The contrast beetween those two statements leaves me feeling just a bit confused. On the one hand we are surrounded every day by people who justify their sin. I am not sinning when I over eat, when I loose my temper, when I gossip about others . . .
What do you say to someone who has made up their mind based on their own opinions? The temptation is to spout off, to get angry, to become agressive in asserting the truth. But the words that come to mind are those of Paul to Timothy:
24 And the Lord's servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil,
25 correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth,
26 and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, after being captured by him to do his will.
Because the goal of faithful shepherds is not to drive sinners from the church. If it were we could just lock the doors on Sunday and so long as we were outside then we would have succeeded. No, the goal of shepherd is to see people come to repentance, through the faithful and persistent I insistance on the truth. Gentleness, patience, and endurance of evil, for the sake of repentance, these are hard.
Especially when from the outside it is easy to see that they are, in the word of Paul, serving the devil. But that is Gods way, he is patient with sinners, gracious and merciful. By God's hand we will be also.